Awareness Tools

 

«After the ecstasy, the laundry.» – Jack Kornfield

The major part of the «tools» on this page can be regarded as «conscious self–help methods», and they can prove very useful when it comes to going through intense and challenging experiences, states, and purification and integration processes, which are likely to occur both during and after Awakening, in the most effortless and most resistance–free way possible. When there is a deeper sense of Presence, Awareness and more «Inner Space,» residual energetic–emotional «charges» may surface to be released at the cell level and to leave your body system lighter and more liberated. However, such «processes» usually do not last for long, fully in line with the core message of an ancient Sufi story that says, «This, too, shall pass.»

In the context of the LOCs 600 to 699, in which the «no–self» and «non–doing» may be clearly experienced and, therefore, gladly be responded to the crisis, problems, and help requests from others by say «There is nothing you can do» or «There is no one there to do anything», Ramaji writes in his book «1000», «When you have come full circle in this journey, it again makes sense to talk as a human being to human beings and tell them what they can do to help themselves.»

Furthermore, in his book «Who Am I? Meditation» Ramaji quotes an email exchange in which he was responding to a person who had recently gone to LOC 1000, «You have realized the Self. There may still be an apparent process of stabilization. Some go through that, some don’t. People vary in the amount of mental–emotional karma they will still have to deal with. If there is a lot of stuff left to deal with, that can be confusing. The typical assumption is that there will be only perfect peace and bliss all of the time. The «highest–level sage» does indeed enjoy that experience. «Lesser sages», though Self–realized, do have subjective karmic momentum that is potentially disturbing or distracting. We will deal with whatever comes up as it is needed.»

The first 3 methods on this page can be particularly useful when dealing with «challenging» emotions and traumas, and the next 3 when dealing with mental «noise,» residual self–identifications, etc. The 8th and 9th may result in an increased self-awareness (the ability to «see») and in a deeper sense of «inner freedom,» and the 9th – Surrender  – is universal, (almost) timeless and completely natural. It all boils down to Seeing and Seeing Through, especially through residual resistance, Feeling and Experiencing, and «Surrendering to what is» – not in terms of «doing», but as a natural happening in the now.

For example, simply pick any one that currently speaks to you, and apply it calmly with awareness. You may jump via the links below, too.

1) «Being what is» or «staying with the what is»
2) Falling into the feeling
3) Merging with the feeling
4) Exposing the «thinker»
5) Stopping to believe thoughts or cutting them off
6) The «Buddha Meditation»
7) Self–inquiry according to Ramana Maharshi
8) Being Aware of Being Aware
9) Surrender

1) «Being what is» or «staying with the what is»

At the beginning, this method may need some practice because we have been so conditioned to avoid so called «unpleasant» or «uncomfortable» feelings and emotions. But when applied deliberately several times, it becomes as simple and natural as breathing.

Be with the feeling that prevails in you. Do not judge it, just be aware of its presence. Focus your attention on the feeling and the body part where the feeling is most noticeable. Now you feel what is going on in your body. Feel the feeling – be it pain, fear, grief, anger, etc. You do not need to name or analyze it. Just feel it in the body and stay with it. «Confront» it. Be it.

When you get distracted by thoughts, as soon as you realize it again focus your attention on the feeling in the body. Just feel it and feel what’s going on inside you. Allow it to express itself exactly as it is. If you feel any resistance, turn your attention to the resistance and allow it. Regardless of which emotion is arising or prevailing, let it be, allow it to be expressed and experienced. Even if it is just the feeling of boredom or «I don’t like now.» Allow every feeling by perceiving it, feeling it and «being with it» – without trying to change or to get rid of it.

You may apply this exercise as often as you like. At the beginning, it may be helpful to first do it at home or wherever you are undisturbed. If you are used to it, you can apply it anywhere, anytime, even while shopping, taking a walk, and so on.

In the best case, apply this exercise daily for several weeks until it happens automatically. This way it can bring about a complete acceptance of (i.e., an absence of resistance to) whatever is arising, be felt in you and serve as a enormous relief and release.

Anssi Antila puts it this way, «What are you feeling now? Is this your favorite «state?» If not, then you’re doing nothing good to you now. Admit your defeat for a moment. Say, «It’s okay.» Then, watch your breathing and your feelings. Nothing else needs to be done – just feeling and breathing. Do this until life takes you back to your center. Test it.»

Nikita Gill sums it up by saying, «Let it hurt. Let it «bleed.» Let it heal. And let it go.»

Shuryu Suzuki says, «The only way to endure your pain is to let it be painful.»

And paraphrasing Lao Tzu, «The one who suffers the suffering, therefore does not suffer.»

You may also do this «inner exercise.»

«Healing» the unconscious mind…. the «inner child»….. old «charges»…. on a mental, emotional, energetic, physical etc. level…. a do–it–yourself «exercise»…. be willing to completely feel it…. to «feel through» it…. sit with yourself…. free of distractions…. breathe…. feel into yourself…. ‹what is there?›…. ‹in the heart›….. ‹in the solar plexus›…. ‹in the belly area›….. ‹what else is there?›…. be curious…. let yourself feel it completely…. «feeling through» it….. whatever it may be…. anger, rage, hatred, resentment, anxiety, fear, pain, powerlessness, compulsion, frustration, boredom, impatience…… ‹what is still there?….. ‹in the inner heart›….. ‹in the root chakra›…. ‹in the sacral chakra›…. ‹in the solar plexus›…. etc. etc. etc….. let it show itself to you…. take the plunge….. you are aware of the symptoms…. now go to the root…. «confront» it…. allow it…. it is OK…. it may be…. feel it….. ‹I love you›….. it is your «healing»…….

Tip – apply this as often and for as long as anything show itself to you. Just repeat as needed.

2) Falling into the feeling

This approach is similar to the one above, except that you consciously let yourself «fall into» the feeling or the pain. Let yourself fall into it so long and so deeply until you have come to the groundlessness of the feeling.

Try it the next time when a painful or oppressive feeling arises in you. First, locate the pain or the oppressive feeling in the body. Just perceive it, feel it, and let yourself fall into the center of it with full awareness. Fall in love with this intensity. Enjoy it intimately and let yourself fall into this groundlessness, this sweet emptiness.

Gunnar Gressl, a friend and RASA facilitator from Austria, writes: «What I experience with many in the post 1000 (and, of course, before that) is dissatisfaction with WHAT IS. That was also the case with me and I virtually do not experience it anymore. What is now there is a 100% YES to WHAT IS (indifferent to in the sense of equally valid what it is).

If someone asks me what I can do, I often say – let yourself completely fall into the dissatisfaction. I have written it several times already, but for me it is like an inner backward tipping or dropping back into the dissatisfaction. Then you can not hold anywhere, free fall into the black hole. Let yourself completely be eaten, digested and puked. So, no matter what appears, what shows up – as f****** as it may feel – know it is This, and surrender to it. Uncompromising.»

3. Merging with the feeling

We are used to say, «I have pain, anger, fear, depression, etc.», instead of saying «I am pain, anger, anxiety, depression, etc.»

Next time a depressing, constricting, or painful emotion or sensation arises, be with it in the knowingness that you are not different from it, that you are one with it. There is no separation between you and the feeling. You are it.

In case of strong emotions or traumas that can make themselves felt as «charges» in your body, you may apply this method in a 30 minute to 1 hour meditation, and during that consciously experience them in this way.

Alexander Trampitsch, a friend and RASA facilitator from Austria, explains, «I AM the blockage. Therefore not pushing it away, but rather bringing it back consciously. I am this blockage (it is part of me), then staying with it in meditation at least half an hour. Then kundalini dissolves it.

That is something different than the teaching to stay with the pain, or to experience it fully. The difference is to really FULLY integrate it. Not just to experience, but «Yaaahoooo, I AM this blockage!»

Not I + blockage, but becoming blockage, BEING blockage.»

Note – at Writings and Sayings under «The Heart and Self-love», there are some writings related to the first 3 methods on this page.

4) Exposing the «thinker»

If depressing, anxious, seeking thoughts, etc. appear, go without further concerning about them to the root, the «I». Can you locate an «I» in this mental noise? Who thinks these thoughts? Can you find him or her? Can you find such a thing like a «thinker» in you?

Apply this method in a focused way and see for yourself what remains of the phantom «thinker» along with its worries and stories.

Another variation of this exercise is to command the non-existent «thinker» in you to «think!», and then see what happens.

Tip – this blog post may provide additional clarity on this method.

5) Stopping to believe thoughts or cutting them off

a) Decide to no more believe thoughts with immediate effect. They are not yours, they merely come and go, just like a breeze that enters the window. Stop dealing with them they will get lost by themselves! Just let them vanish into thin air.

Zen master Shunryu Suzuki puts it this way, «(…) leave your front door and back door open. Let thoughts come and go. Just don’t serve them tea (i.e. just don’t deal with them; this applies to both «negative» and «positive» thoughts).»

Byron Katie says, «Thoughts aren’t personal. They just appear, like raindrops. Would you argue with a raindrop?»

Nisargadatta Maharaj says, «Watch your thoughts as you watch the passing traffic. People come and go; you register without response.»

«There is no such thing as peace of mind. Mind means disturbance; restlessness itself is mind.»

«Leave your mind alone; that is all. Do not go along with it.
After all, there is no such thing as mind apart from thoughts, which come and go obeying their own laws, not yours. They dominate you only because you are interested in them.
It is exactly as Christ said, «Resist not evil.» By resisting evil you merely strengthen it.»

The band «Here 2 Here» sing in their song «Ego?», «(…) the only thing that’s got beat with the mind is the mind.»

Alexander Trampitsch says, «You’ve Never thought a single thought.»

And paraphrasing Chuang Tzu, «Leave thoughts alone.»

b) The next time thoughts arise, simply cut them off by the power of your awareness. Regardless of what they are about (the «content») or how beautiful or ugly they might appear. Whenever any thoughts arise, cut them off.

Ramana Maharshi says, «A thought has to be quenched as soon as it arises.»

These are some related sayings by Sri Bhagavan that can provide valuable insights in this context.

«Thoughts are not mine.»

«This body is not mine.»

«Everything is happening automatically.»

«There is no one there at all.»

«The Awakened One has no will and no illusions. The Awakened One merely dwells in Reality.»

«To see is to be free.»

«The mere seeing is sufficient.»

«Suffering is never in the fact, but only in the perception of the fact (never «out there» or in «the other,» but only ever in one’s own – conscious or unconscious – perception of it; never in the actual experience, the situation, the circumstance, thoughts, emotions, sensations, etc., but only in the mental interpretation or conception of it, i.e. the way it «appears»).»

«The content (of thoughts, emotions, experiences, etc.) is never important, but to experience it is.»

«Anything experienced fully turns into bliss (or joy or peace).»

«All things should happen naturally and spontaneously.»

«Tampering with the flow is the birth of suffering.»

«Any movement away from the «what is» is suffering.»

«Resistance is suffering. Where there is oneness (awareness), there is no resistance.»

«Letting go of resistance is acceptance.»

What you resist, persists.

What is, simply is.

6) The «Buddha Meditation»

This approach, which was given by the Buddha, can help you to recognize yourself as the free awareness that is completely unaffected by what is apparently happening. Its conscious application in meditation or in everyday situations is particularly useful if you are just struggling with something or identifying with any annoying thoughts or strenuous emotions.

Meditate and observe whatever appears (thoughts, emotions, sensations, body, etc.), contemplate, know and see,

Whatever appears
1) is not Me
2) is not Mine
3) is no statement about Me

Nisargadatta Maharaj says, «You observe the heart feeling, the mind thinking, the body acting. The very act of perceiving shows that you are not what you perceive.»

Alexander Trampitsch says, «In fact, You are Never inside of it.»

Ramana Maharshi says, «Let come what comes. Let go what goes. See what remains.»

And once again the Buddha, «See what is. See what is not. Follow the true «path» (stick to the Truth).»

7) Self–inquiry according to Ramana Maharshi

Self–inquiry or investigating yourself (sankr. Ātma–vichara) might be familiar to you. Here you internally ask the question «Who am I?» This question need not be answered verbally, but can lead you into a more profound «seeing» of your self–nature, i.e. you may penetrate the core of the «I,» find out what that «I» consists of, and let yourself fall into the «bottomless bottom within.» What then remains, is This.

You can use this method at any time, either with eyes open or closed, and especially when «disturbing» thoughts pass by. Then ask yourself, «Whom do these thoughts arise?», «Who is aware of these thoughts?», and, «In what do these thoughts emerge?» Do not expect a specific answer, but let yourself be taken into a deeper awareness of yourself by this «open question».

Another step is to explicitly trace the «thinker» or the «I»–thought. By asking «Who?» or «What?», find out where the apparent «thinker» is precisely located in you. Be aware of the «I»–thought, «stalk» it and go to the bottom of it. «See» what is at the center or at the root of the «I»–thought, and then dwell or abide in that thoughtless «space» – the peace and silence of your True Nature.

One step further down is the «2-step Self-inquiry,» in which you gently but consistently expose and trace the «I»-thought back to the heart on the right (where it, according to Ramana Maharshi, originally arises from) with these 2 powerful questions,

«Who (what) is having this experience (these thoughts, emotions, body, etc.)?»

«Where do you (the «I»-thought) come (arise) from?»

These are some more saying by Ramana Maharshi on this method,

«Of all the thoughts that rise in the mind, the «I»–thought is the first thought.»

«You must turn inward (direct your attention inward) and see where the mind rises from, and then it will cease to exist.»

«Only the annihilation of the «I» is Liberation. But it can be gained only by keeping the «I–I» always in view. So the need for the investigation of the «I»–thought.»

«Reality is simply the loss of the «ego» («I»-thought). Destroy the «ego» by seeking (inquiring) its identity. Because the «ego» is no entity, it will automatically vanish and Reality will shine forth by itself.»

And these are some related sayings by Nisargadatta Maharaj,

«By self–knowledge I mean full knowledge of what you are not. Such knowledge is attainable and final. But to the discovery of what you are there can be no end. The more you discover, the more there remains to discover.»

«To know what you are, you must first investigate and know what you are not. Discover all that you are not – body, feelings, thoughts, time, space, this or that. You observe the heart feeling, the mind thinking, the body acting. Nothing, concrete or abstract, which you perceive can be you. The very act of perceiving shows that you are not what you perceive.»

«What is really your own, you are not conscious of. What you are conscious of is neither you nor yours. Yours is the power of perception – not what you perceive.
It is a mistake to take the conscious to be the whole of man. Man is the unconscious, the conscious and the superconscious – but you are not that man. Yours is the cinema screen, the light as well as the seeing power – but the picture is not you.»

«I am like a cinema screen – clear and empty. The pictures pass over it and disappear, leaving it as clear and empty as before. In no way is the screen affected by the pictures, nor are the pictures affected by the screen.»

Tip – further, more in–depth instructions and explanations to this method can be found in the booklet «Who am I?» by Ramana Maharshi and in the other books of or about him further down on this page, and in the videos about him on this page. In this context, Ramaji’s free ebook «The Yoga of Self–Inquiry» (for Apple devices only, as PDF here), which is a condensed and reworked version of «Who Am I? Meditation», is also recommended.

8) Being Aware of Being Aware

This is another extremely direct method taught by Eckhart Tolle, Ramana Maharshi, and Nisargadatta Maharaj, amongst others. It is also known as «Turning around the light» or as «Directing awareness onto itself».

Eckhart Tolle puts it this way,

«Instead of being aware of something, just be aware that you are aware.
Feel your own presence; and become still.»

Ramana Maharshi puts it this way,

«Consciousness (or Awareness) is indeed always with us.
Everyone knows, «I am!» No one can deny his own being.»

«Become aware of being aware.
Say or think «I am,» and add nothing to it.
Be aware of the stillness that follows the «I am.»
Sense your presence—
the naked, unveiled, unclothed beingness.»

«Remain aware of yourself,
and all else will be known.»

And Nisargadatta Maharaj puts it this way,

«There is nothing to practice. To know yourself, be yourself. To be yourself, stop imagining yourself to be this or that. Just be. Let your True Nature emerge. Don’t disturb your mind with seeking.»

«Put your Awareness to work, not your mind. The mind is not the right instrument for this task. The Timeless can be reached only by the Timeless. Your body and your mind are subject to time. Only Awareness is timeless, even in the now.»

«A quiet mind is all you need. All else will happen rightly once your mind is quiet. As the sun on rising makes the world active, so does Self–Awareness affect changes in the mind. In the light of calm and steady Self–Awareness inner energies wake up and work miracles without any effort on your part.»

«The Awareness that you are will open your eyes to what you are. It is all very simple. First of all, establish a constant contact with your Self, be with yourself all the time. Into Self–Awareness all blessings flow. Begin as a center of observation, deliberate cognizance, and grow into a center of love in action.»

«Stay in that love, go deeper and deeper into it, investigate yourself and love the investigation.»

«The Unchangeable can only be realized in silence. Once realized, It will deeply affect the changeable, Itself remaining unaffected.»

«This union of the Seer and the Seen happens when the Seer becomes aware of himself as the Seer. He is not merely interested in the Seen, which he is anyhow, but also interested in being interested, giving attention to attention, aware of being aware.»

Tip – a more detailed instruction of it is available via this website and in the books and videos of Rupert Spira, and a closely related method can be found in the books and videos of Nisargadatta Maharj, for example in Nisarga Yoga Manual – Key Instructions by Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj.

9) Surrender

Non-dual or «true» surrender (sanskr. advaita bhakti) is what is voiced by Ramana Maharshi in these short and concise sayings.

«Surrender to the substratum of appearances unreservedly. Then Reality will be left over as the residue.

It is enough that one surrenders oneself. Surrender is giving oneself up to the original Cause of one’s being.
(…) The Source is within yourself – give yourself up to it. This means that you should seek the Source and merge into it.

Surrender is to merge into the Source of the «I.»

By constantly keeping your attention on the Source, the «I» is dissolved in the Source like a salt doll in the sea.»

Simply put, it is complete and unconditional surrender to what is, or of everything to This.

Furthermore, Ramana Maharshi says, «As for grace – grace is within you. (…) Grace is the Self. You are never out of its operation. Grace is always there.

«The «highest» form of grace is Silence. It is also the «highest» teaching.

«Be still and know that «I Am God» (Psalm 46). Here stillness is total surrender without a vestige of individuality. Stillness will prevail and there will be no agitation of mind. Agitation of mind is the cause of desire, the sense of doership and personality. If that is stopped there is quietude. There «Knowing» means «Being.» It is not the relative knowledge involving the triads, knowledge, subject and object.
(…) «I Am That I Am» (Exodus 3:14). «I Am» is God, not thinking «I Am God.» Realize «I Am» and do not think «I Am.» «Know I Am God,» it is said, and not «Think I Am God.»

Nisargadatta Maharaj says, «Surrender to your own Self, of which everything is an expression.»

And Mooji says, «Hand your existence over to Existence.»

It’s Grace in any case. So let go, surrender, let It (do, take over, hand it over to This) and «do nothing»….

THIS IS IT
Be As You Are
Just Be ❤

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