Writings and Sayings

 

Writings, Sayings and Insights of the Realized

On this page, you’ll find selected sayings of Awakened and Self–realized ones that may facilitate the further dissolution of illusions and identifications and impart profound insights into your own true nature.

These writings and sayings are only meant for the moment, in line with Nisargadatta Maharaj when he says, «You experience the effect of the words and then let them go», and, «Words are pointers, they show the direction, but they will not come along with us.»

For example, you may simply scroll down, stop at a saying that catches your eye, and let it impact you. Or you may jump to a subject that interests you via the links below.

Call to Realization
«Reality Is …»
Unlearning is True «Learning»
«Die Before You Die …»
Self–Love and the Heart
The Natural «State»
Death and Dying

Call to Realization

The «supreme» calling of every human being is to aspire to Self–realization. All other obligations are secondary.

It is but the Self that calls Itself, and none other than the Self that realizes Itself.

Ānandamayi Ma

Your own Self–realization is the greatest service you could render the world.

The state we call Realization is simply being one’s Self, not knowing anything or becoming anything.
If one has realized, one is that which alone is and which alone has always been. One cannot describe that state but only be That.
Of course, we talk loosely of Self–realization for want of a better term.

It is false to speak of Realization. What is there to realize? The Real Is as It Is always. We are not creating anything new or achieving something which we did not have before.
The illustration given in books is this—we dig a well and create a huge pit. The space in the pit or well has not been created by us. We have just removed the earth which was filling the space there. The space was there then and is also there now. Similarly we have simply to throw out all the age–long samskaras (conditionings and tendencies) which are inside us. When all of them have been given up, the Self will shine alone.

I am not the perishable body, but the eternal Self.

You and I are the same. What I have done is surely possible for all. You are the Self now and can never be anything else. Throw your worries to the wind, turn within and find Peace.

There is no greater mystery than this—that we keep seeking Reality though in fact we are Reality! We think that there is something hiding Reality and that this must be destroyed before Reality is gained. How ridiculous!
A day will dawn when you will laugh at all your past efforts. That day when you will laugh is also here and now!

Ramana Maharshi

You shall realize the Truth, and the Truth shall set you free.

Let him who seeks continue seeking until he finds. When he finds, he will become troubled, and when he becomes troubled, he will be astonished, and he will rule over the All.

Jesus Christ

There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to Truth—not going all the way, and not starting.

All it takes is already present in man’s consciousness. Man does not need to look up to the sky, but in oneself!

Paraphrasing the Buddha

What we are looking for is what is looking.

St. Francis of Assisi

I’ve been knocking on God’s door for eons,
And when it finally opened
I realized that
I’ve been knocking from the inside!

At the center of your being
You have the answer—
You know who you are
And you know what you want.

The «way of love»
Is not a subtle argument.
The door there is devastation.
Birds make great sky–circles
Of their freedom.
How do they learn it?
They fall . . .
And falling, they are given wings.

Let yourself be silently drawn
By the stronger pull of
What you really love.
It will not lead you astray.

Jalaluddin Rumi

«Reality Is …»

Reality is an illusion, albeit (although) a very persistent one.

(A human being) experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest (the «other») – a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.

Albert Einstein

One day it will have to be officially admitted that what we have christened «reality» is an even greater illusion than the world of dreams.

Salvador Dali

The world is unreal. Brahman alone is real. The world is Brahman.

Shankara (sanskr. Brahman = the Absolute, Reality, This)

The world is not illusory insofar it is an expression of the Absolute. What is indeed illusory is your mistaken identity as an independent entity.

Manifestation is like a movie.
Consciousness has written the script,
Consciousness has produced the movie,
Consciousness has directed the movie,
Consciousness has played all the roles,
And Consciousness is witnessing the movie
Through billions of body–mind organisms.

You think you are seeing the movie.
Could you see the movie
If Consciousness was not there?

All there is, is Consciousness.

Ramesh Balsekar

The whole movie is already in the box.

Alexander Trampitsch

Nothing Real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists.

A Course in Miracles

Parabrahman is without qualities and beyond consciousness.

Reality is beyond the subjective and the objective, beyond all levels, beyond every distinction. Most definitely it is not their origin, source or root. These come from ignorance of Reality, not from Reality itself, which is indescribable, beyond being and non–being.

The final answer is this – nothing is. All is a momentary appearance in the field of the universal consciousness. Continuity as name and form is a mental formation only, easy to dispel.

Nisargadatta Maharaj (sanskr. Parabrahman = the all–transcending Absolute, Reality, This)

That which can be perceived is not the timeless Tao.
That which can be named is not the nameless One.
The Source of heaven and earth is without form or substance.
Naming creates the ten thousand (countless) things.
When desire is absent, the mystery is obvious.
When desire occurs, creation unfolds.
Mystery and creation arise from the same Source.
The Source is emptiness.
Void within void—
The realm of Tao.

Refrain from regarding the Tao as
Extraordinary, sublime or transcendental.
As the Tao it is beyond all that.
It simply is the direct, essential
And perfect Truth.

Paraphrasing Lao Tzu (chin. Tao i.e. Dao = Reality, the Absolute, This)

The «boundless potential» of this unmanifested, primordial «Power» apparently expresses Itself spontaneously and explosively as all sorts of forms of life and experiences.

There is only This incessantly appearing as «everything.»

This is beyond words, beyond description – simply What Is.

Elias

Unlearning is True «Learning»

Truth is very simple, don’t complicate it.

Papaji

Do not try to understand! It is enough if you don’t misunderstand.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

Eventually, all that one has learnt will have to be forgotten.

Ramana Maharshi

Along with thoughts, all things appear;
Along with thoughts, all things disappear.

Not knowing is the most intimate.

Huang Po

There is a great space in which this moment takes place. There is a great silence that is listening to the thoughts.

If you want to know something, go elsewhere. If you want to «un–know» everything, then sit and listen.

Start with «I don’t know». Why not just start where you’ll end up anyway?

Adyashanti

He who knows does not speak.
He who speaks does not know.

To know that you do not know is clarity.
To think that you know is sickness.
Being sick of sickness,
You attain clarity.

Paraphrasing Lao Tzu

I know that I don’t know anything.

Socrates

Whenever you think that you know something, you’re living in poverty.

I’m living in such a way that I don’t need to know anything anymore, no more.

When you fall in love with the unknown, you’re free.

Byron Katie

«Die Before You Die …»

Die before you die and be completely dead. Then do whatever you want; it’s all good.

­Wu Men

Everything that comes from birth undoes itself in liberation.

Jen Smith

Realization is not the acquisition of anything new, nor is it a new faculty. It is only the removal of all camouflage.

Ramana Maharshi

Make no mistake about it. Enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. It’s seeing through the facade of pretense. It’s the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true.

Adyashanti

Who is thinking in terms of transformation, changing from one state to another, in terms of self–improvement? Surely, it is nothing other than an appearance in consciousness, a character in a movie, an individual in a dream – a dreamed pseudo entity considering itself subject to the workings of karma. How could such a dreamed character «perfect» itself into anything other than its dreamed self? How could a shadow «perfect» itself into its substance? How could there be any «awakening» from the dream, except for the dreamer to resolve the true identity of the Source of the dream, the manifestation?

Give up the search and let the impersonal consciousness take over, and it will let you in on the mystery of its own Source, the pure «I,» the essential subjectivity, the nameless, formless, limitless, timeless, spaceless, imperceptible One, without a second.

When you demand nothing of the world, nor of God, when you want nothing, seek nothing, expect nothing, then the «Supreme State» will come to you uninvited and unexpected.

The Absolute can be «reached» by absolute devotion only. Don’t be half–hearted.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

Surrender to the substratum of appearances unreservedly. Then Reality will be left over as the residue.

It is enough that one surrenders oneself. Surrender is giving oneself up to the original Cause of one’s being.
(…) The Source is within yourself—give yourself up to it. This means that you should seek the Source and merge into it.

Surrender is to merge into the Source of the «I.»

By constantly keeping your attention on the Source, the «I» is dissolved in the Source like a salt–doll in the sea.

Ramana Maharshi

If you wish to shine like day,
Burn up the night of self–existence.
Dissolve into the Being
That is everything.

Jalaluddin Rumi

Hope is for fools. Dreams are for idiots. Drop your hopes. Kill your dreams. Live in the abyss of not knowing. That will bring a swift end to all that you know, to everything you hold dear.
As the Absolute rides through your town, it announces, «I bring a sword. I am not here to help you sleep. I am here to help you die. Behold, you are already dead. This is nirvana.»

Ramaji in «1000» (sanskr. nirvana = to cease blowing, to go out; «No–Thing–Ness;» Reality, the Absolute)

«Kill» everything that you’re able to kill, and be This which always remains, which isn’t able to kill Itself. That’s neti, neti, neti, neti, neti. That’s actually always Kāli – chop, chop, chop, chop – chop until you drop!

Karl Renz (sanskr. neti neti = not this, not that)

Enlightenment is disappointment … as long as there is anything left to be disappointed.

And goes deeper and deeper … there is always something to be found that doesn’t want to be died.

Gunnar Gressl

10,000 times you can die … till you’re able to love yourself absolutely nuts!

Alexander Trampitsch

Self–Love and the Heart

All love of this world is based on self–love.

Meister Eckhart

All love can only begin with love for oneself.

Sri Bhagavan

1) Love and accept yourself as you are.
2) Love and accept «others.»

Accept, embrace, love and own yourself completely. It’s absolutely worth it.

Elias

The biggest embrace of love you’ll ever make is to embrace yourself completely. Then you’ll realize you’ve just embraced the whole universe, and everything and everybody in it.

Adyashanti

If you want the moon,
Do not hide from the night.
If you want a rose,
Do not run from the thorns.
If you want love,
Do not hide from yourself.

This being human is a guesthouse.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness—
Some momentary awareness comes
As an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
Who violently sweep your house
Empty of its furniture,
Still treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
For some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice—
Meet them at the door laughing,
And invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
Because each has been sent
As a guide from beyond.

Those pains you feel are messengers.
Listen to them.

Jalaluddin Rumi

Life has a way of finding the wound.
This is not to be hurtful, nor unkind,
but, so that we may heal.
What could be more Loving than this.

Prudence Prajna

Don’t seek happiness. If you seek it, you won’t find it, because seeking is the antithesis of happiness. Happiness is ever elusive, but freedom from unhappiness is «attainable» now, by facing «what is»—rather than making up stories about it.
Unhappiness covers up your natural «state» of well­being and inner peace, the source of true happiness.

Eckhart Tolle

True happiness is uncaused, and this cannot disappear for lack of stimulation. It is not the opposite of sorrow, it includes all sorrow and suffering.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

Willingness to suffer fully, even for an instant, without trying to escape or be safe, means that suffering is no longer an obstacle to full surrender into the mystery of existence.

Gangaji

Love is the only thing that remains when everything else goes. If only because it was never absent. Conditional love is present or absent, but true love is. In the total disenchantment is love and that love knows nothing at all. The word «love» is alien to it, as are all other words. It is beyond any imagination. It is timeless. And in timelessness it knows neither itself nor others.
All that love actually wants – to put it this way – is to be revealed. This is only possible by forgetting her unconditional nature. By forgetting, it is looking and looking for itself, creates one object after another, and always encounters only itself – without knowing it.
How great is the joy when the veil of illusion falls and love falls back on itself. This is the case every time neither the person nor the form is seen, but their foundation. This Self–realization is so delicate, so fulfilling – you never want to leave that place. Once you have sniffed it, there is no stopping for love – until what is not real is completely annihilated. Only when everything that is not love is destroyed, true love emerges, and it shines brighter than any star.
Love in its absolute unconditional nature is so appealing that all objects in it burn like moths in the flame. You become this love, whether you like it or not. With skin and hair, she burns you until nothing is left of you.
Only this love is real. Everything else are games and ideas of a mind, which only believes to know itself and nothing else.
When all masks have fallen, nothing but love is seen.

ReiMo

To free your heart from all burdens, would that not be wonderful? In any case, it sounds wonderful, and yet it is nothing but another miserable attempt to heal something that is already intact.
It is not the heart that has built up the walls, that has impeded the heart. The heart has nothing to do with it.
The belief that there is something that needs release creates an invisible wall. And with every other belief we also believe that we need to barricade even more.
(…) Every heartbreak undoes something. So I gladly let my heart break, for it is not my heart that breaks, but the walls and burdens.

Sandra Sarah Devi

The broken heart is a widespread myth. The heart cannot break. What can break is the «ego,» and when the «ego» actually collapses, something miraculous happens—the heart receives much more love than before.
To conclude—you can suffer a lot, but not a broken heart. The very term implies an impossibility.

Anssi Antila

Remember, your heart is not your heart. It’s simply a door to something far beyond «you.»

God Dieux

What you are is (by far) beyond what appears, so that you can’t make its becoming self–evident dependent on a so–called heart–opening or on any other physical or psychic phenomenon.

Werner Ablass

The whole universe is within the body, the whole body is within the Heart. Thus the Heart is the Core of the whole universe.
And again—the world is nothing but the mind, the mind is nothing but the Heart. The Heart, therefore, encompasses everything.

Ramana Maharshi

When all your desires
Are distilled,
You will cast just two votes—
To love more
And be happy.

Jalaluddin Rumi

Tip – more on this subject is available in the blog posts here, here and here, amongst others.

The Natural «State»

The ultimate truth is so simple. It is nothing more than being in the pristine (natural) «state.» This is all that need be said.

Although it (the «small self» or «I») sets out for this great adventure (of Self–realization), it does so only to … get lost on the journey.

Ramana Maharshi

When you realize Who You Are,
 all your attempts to get something better
 so that you can be something better 
are seen in all their absurdity.
A great, deep release follows. 
This is the exquisite release of finally surrendering 
to the Truth of Yourself, the Truth of Your Being.

Gangaji

Tat Tvam Asi! – You are This!

Om So Hang! – I am This!

Om Tat Sat! – This is It!

Upanishads

I am what I’ve been looking for!

Yourself

I Am That I Am.

Exodus

I am the light that stands above all things. I am the all—the all has come out of me and has come to me. Split a piece of wood, and I am there. Lift up the stone, and you will find me there.

I and the Father are one.

Jesus Christ

Not Christian or Jew or Muslim,
Not Hindu, Buddhist, Sufi, or Zen.

Not any religion or cultural system.

I am not from the East
Or the West,
Not out of the ocean
Or up from the ground,
Not natural or ethereal,
Not composed of elements at all.

I do not exist,
Am not an entity in this world
Or in the next,
Did not descend from Adam and Eve
Or any origin story.

My place is placeless,
A trace of the traceless.

Neither body or soul.

I belong to the Beloved,
Have seen the two worlds as one
And that one call to and know—
First, last, outer, inner, only that
Breath breathing human being.

There is oneness and no more.

Jalaluddin Rumi

Self–realization or enlightenment is nothing more than the deepest possible understanding that there is no individual doer of any actions – neither you nor anyone else! Also you are not the thinker of any thought, nor the experiencer of any experiences – they happen!

Ramesh Balsekar

Everything just happens automatically – and this is the last thing the mind wants to hear. The whole thing is all spontaneous.

Mooji

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.

John Lennon

For me enlightenment is the falling off of imagination … the future is unknown. The natural «state» is not knowing … in that, everything appears as it is – perfect.

Gunnar Gressl

How wonderful! How wonderful! All things are perfect exactly as they are!

Gate Gate Parasamgate Bodhi Svaha! – Gone, gone, gone beyond, gone beyond going – awakened! What a blessing!

Through attaining unexcelled perfect enlightenment I attained not a single thing.

There is just pain, but no owner of it.
There are just actions, but no doer thereof.
There is salvation, but no one to be redeemed.
There is «the path», but no one walking to be found.

Paraphrasing the Buddha

Since everything is but an apparition, having nothing to do with good or bad, acceptance or rejection, one might as well burst out laughing!

Longchenpa

Nothing ever happened.

(…) so stay with the Unknown, the Unchanging, the Truth.

Forget what can be forgotten and know yourself to be that which can never be forgotten.

Be quiet. Keep quiet.

Papaji

When you throw out all the concepts, including your primary concept («I Am»), then whatever is, is. Stay put in quietude.

Once you are quiet, things will begin to happen spontaneously and quite naturally without any interference on your part.

The final answer is this – nothing is. All is a momentary appearance in the field of the universal consciousness. Continuity as name and form is a mental formation only, easy to dispel.

There is no doer, there is no creator of the manifest world and the universe. There is no enjoyer. Everything is happening spontaneously.

My state is that which never felt the creation and dissolution of the universe. I have not expounded this part. I remain untouched through the creation and dissolution of the universe.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

Be still.

Abide as the Self at all times.

There is neither creation nor destruction, neither destiny nor free will, neither path nor achievement. This is the final truth.

Whatever is destined not to happen will not happen, try as you may. Whatever is destined to happen will happen, do what you may to prevent it. This is certain. The best course, therefore, is to remain silent.

Ramana Maharshi

«Father, there is little to tell.» She spread her graceful hands in a deprecatory gesture. «My consciousness has never associated itself with this temporary body. Before I came on this earth, father, I was the same. As a little girl, I was the same. I grew into womanhood, but still I was the same. When the family in which I had been born made arrangements to have this body married, I was the same… And, father, in front of you now, I am the same. Ever afterward, though the dance of creation changes around me in the hall of eternity, I shall be the same.»

Ānandamayi Ma

I don’t know who I am anymore. I don’t know what I am anymore. I wanted to be a lot, all my life. Sometimes this, sometimes that. Now I am nothing anymore, and in this nothingness I find that I am everything.

Regina Bergelt

To see that I am nothing is wisdom. To see that I am everything is love. Between the two my life moves.

(…) life ceases to be a task and becomes natural and simple, in itself an ecstasy.

The Real is simple, open, clear and kind, beautiful and joyous. It is completely free of contradictions. It is ever new, ever fresh, endlessly creative. Being and non–being, life and death, all distinctions merge in it.

You can know it in action only. Express it in daily life and its light will grow ever brighter.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

Live 200% in life – 100% inner fulfillment of the silent, «absolute level» of life and 100% abundance of achievement and happiness in the «outer» field or playground of «relative» life.

Paraphrasing Maharishi Mahesh Yogi

(…) to return to an ordinary, free life.

Margarita Rothhaar

When life asked for a thousand years, «Why do you live?» If it answered at all, it would simply say, «I live to live!» That is because life is living for its own sake, welling out of its own. That is why it lives without a reason—it lives only itself! And if you ask a true human being who works for his own reason, «Why do you work your works?» If he answered correctly, he would merely say, «I work to work.»

Meister Eckhart

When the mind is at peace,
The world too is at peace.
Nothing real, nothing absent.
Not holding on to reality,
Not getting stuck in the void,
You are neither holy nor wise—
Just an ordinary fellow
Who has completed his work.

My daily activities are not unusual,
I’m just naturally in harmony with them.
Grasping nothing, discarding nothing.
Supernatural power and marvellous activity—
Drawing water and carrying firewood.

Layman Pang

Before seeking enlightenment, mountains were mountains and rivers were rivers.
While seeking enlightenment, mountains were not mountains and rivers were not rivers.
Now that enlightenment is the case, mountains are mountains and rivers are rivers.

Before enlightenment—chop wood and carry water;
After enlightenment—chop wood and carry water.

When you are hungry, eat;
When you are tired, sleep.

There is really nothing you must be,
And there is nothing you must do.
There is really nothing you must have,
And there is nothing you must know.
There is really nothing you must become,
However, it helps to understand that fire burns,
And when it rains, the earth gets wet.

Paraphrasing the Zen masters

To come in harmony with Suchness,
See everything as Not–Two.
In Not–Two nothing is separate,
Nothing left out.
In all places and times,
Enlightenment means becoming
This Single Truth.

Words! It is beyond words.
Yesterday never happened.
Tomorrow never will.
Today does not exist.

Seng Tsan in «Hsin Hsin Ming» (or «Sinjinmei» or «Faith Mind Sutra;» This = chin. Tao i.e. Dao = Reality, the Absolute, This)

Ultimate Truth is wordless, the silence within the silence.

Pirke Avot

(…) thereafter, the «pure talk about the Self» which has taken place before appears almost blasphemous … and is pure ignorance and unknowingness.

Alexander Trampitsch

(…) what then remains is soooo without words … just This.

Gunnar Gressl

Many words are soon exhausted. Hold fast to the Core (the Center, the «Internal»).

Paraphrasing Lao Tzu

Where can I find a man who has forgotten words? He is the one I would like to talk to.

Chuang Tzu

Death and Dying

Beings were unmanifest in the beginning;
They become manifest between birth and death;
On death, they again become unmanifest.

Bhagavad Gita

Birth is not a beginning;
Death is not an end.
There is an Existence without limitation;
There is a continuity without a starting point.

Chuang Tzu

Nobody dies – death means finished. For example, a drop of water when it evaporates has become infinite.
There is no death for anything. Everything finishes to become infinite.

There is no personality, so there is no question of birth, life, or death. What remains is just Consciousness without name or form.

Nisargadatta Maharaj

(Nisargadatta) Maharaj rejects the idea of re–birth or re–incarnation out of hand, and the basis for such rejection is so simple that it humbles us—the entity which is supposed to be re–born does not exist, except as a mere concept! How can a concept be re–born?
Maharaj in all innocence asks the protagonist of re–birth, «Please, I want to know, who is it that would be re–born?» The body «dies» and, after death, is demolished—buried or cremated—as quickly as possible. The body, in other words, has been irreparably, irretrievably, irrevocably destroyed. That body, therefore, which was an objective thing cannot be re–born. How then can anything non–objective like the life–force (the breath), which, on the death of the body, merged with the air outside, or the consciousness which merged with the Impersonal Consciousness, be re–born either?
Perhaps, says Maharaj, you will say that the entity concerned will be re–born. But that would be utterly ridiculous. You do know that the «entity» is nothing but a concept, a hallucination which arises when consciousness mistakenly identifies itself with the particular form.
How did the idea of re–birth arise at all? It was perhaps conceived as some sort of an acceptable working theory to satisfy the simpler people who were not intelligent enough to think beyond the parameters of the manifested world.

Ramesh Balsekar in «Pointers From Nisargadatta Maharaj»

To die is to leave one’s mortal garment behind and to remain as This.

Life is but a dream and dying is waking up.

All things spontaneously arises from «nothingness» and eventually return to «nothingness».
You are no exception in this.

Elias

At death there is only liberation. It’s just more chic to see liberation while you’re alive.

Max Furlaud

Here. You are there already. You are in nirvana. You are like a fish claiming it is thirsty. You are right in the middle of it. Here. Here.

Janwillem van de Wetering (sanskr. nirvana = to blow away, to go out; also No–Thing–Ness, Reality, the Absolute)

Blessed is he who stands in the beginning! He shall know the end, and shall not taste death.

Jesus Christ

Empty yourself of everything; let the mind rest at peace.
The ten thousand (countless) things rise and fall
As the Tao watches their return.
They grow and flourish and then return to Source.
Returning to Source is Silence, which is the way of nature.

Paraphrasing Lao Tzu (chin. Tao i.e. Dao = Reality, the Absolute, This)

We are all visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing through. Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow, to love … and then we return «home».

Aboriginal proverb

Life is a mystery to be lived, not a riddle to be solved or understood. That’s all there is to it.
All things emerge from that Silence and return to that Silence. You too would eventually merge into that Silence from which you emerged in the first instance.

The Awakened One embraces death, for there is no death for the Awakened One.

The Awakened One is ready to die.

If you are awakened, the same mountains, the same stars you saw earlier would look very different. You could enjoy the world and simply pass away from this world. This is the «game of life».

Sri Bhagavan

Most people are not afraid of death, they are afraid of life.

Death is an illusion.

Ānanda Devi

Death is a favor to us,
But our scales have lost their balance.

The impermanence of the body
Should give us great clarity,
Deepening the wonder in our senses and eyes
Of this mysterious existence we share
And are surely just journeying through.

If I were in the Tavern tonight
Hafiz would call for drinks
And as the Master poured, I would be reminded
That all I know of life and myself is that
We are just a midair flight of golden wine
Between His Pitcher and His Cup.

If I were in the Tavern tonight,
I would buy freely for everyone in this world
Because our marriage with the Cruel Beauty
of time and space cannot endure very long.

Death is a favor to us,
But our minds have lost their balance.

The miraculous existence and impermanence of form
Always makes the «illumined ones» laugh and sing.

Hafiz

«Message From A Dying Friend»
by Jeff Foster

I don’t want your answers, your good advice. I don’t want your theories about «why» or «how». I don’t need your pity. Your attempts to make me feel better only make me feel worse. I am human, just like you, and crave realness.

Just be present with me. Listen. Give me space. Hold my trembling hand, sometimes. Your attention is so precious to me. Your being speaks volumes.

If you feel uncomfortable, don’t be ashamed. If you don’t know what to say to me, that’s okay; I feel that way too, sometimes. If you feel disgusted, angry, uncertain, fearful, that’s okay, I love you for it. You are human, too.

Put your textbook learning to one side now. Don’t try to have «unconditional positive regard»; it feels so false to me. Forget «empathy»—I want you to come closer than that.

See, I am you, in disguise. These are your broken bones, your shallow breaths, your twisted limbs. I am your mirror; you are seeing yourself.

Don’t try to be strong for me. I am not a victim. Fall apart, if you must. Weep, if you need to weep. Mourn those shattered dreams, those lost futures. Let the past slip away too. Meet me here, now, in the fire of presence, with the fullness of your being.

I speak in an ancient language now.

I want you to be a witness.

Life—still, soft and crystal clear,
Dies laughing as it finds its Source.
Death—smiling, sheds a happy tear,
Discovering that it’s life, of course.

Liz Jones

Dying is easy,
believe me, it is like
happy dreaming.
The space becomes vast—
in boundlessly flowing felicity
you give yourself back
to the Primordial Ocean . . .

Ephides

Tips.
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